Go back to school?
Buy a condo?
Seems to me if one keeps pondering the same things, perhaps one should do something about it.
Go back to school?
Buy a condo?
Seems to me if one keeps pondering the same things, perhaps one should do something about it.
I am pretty excited… I’ll be joining a group of lovely ladies to participle with in this year’s Ukrop’s 10k on Saturday, April 1st!
It is something I’ve tried to do annually with my girl Janie since 2011.
In 2011, I was 40 and finished the race in 1 hour, 15 minutes and 53 seconds.
In 2012, I was 41 and finished the race in 1 hour, 14 minutes and 46 seconds.
In 2015, yeah I took a couple of years off, I was 43 finished the race in 1 hour, 22 minutes and 55 seconds.
And now in 2017, because last year I broke my foot and I could not participate, I will be 4 days into my 46th year of life and my only goal is…..to complete the race! hahaha
My times might not sound like all of that, but to me they rock.
You see, each time I just up and did 6.2 miles with no training in the middle of tax season and I have remained pretty consistent through the years.
I even get up at the crack of dawn, drive 2+ hours, do the race, have lunch and drive the 2+ hours back.
Now that alone has got to be impressive! hahaha
I am not sure what this year holds due to the extra weight I am carrying courtesy of the previously mentioned broken foot last year, but if I can remain consistent, I will be over the moon!
And even if I cannot, but I at least finish the race, well, I will still be as pleased as punch and proud of myself.
I hope you sign up to do something you think you might not be able to pull off this year too, it does wonders for the soul.
I stepped away from work this weekend. I mean like for real.
This is the first weekend in a month that I did not bring any work home.
My boss is at the Super Bowl with his son. Pretty neat, huh?
Well, if the busiest man in the firm can take a little time to step away to enjoy life a bit before we are all living at the office, well I needed to follow suit.
I really needed it too – mentally, physically and emotionally.
As a result I have great news! I have been very productive this weekend, taking care of me things.
I am now the proud owner of four new (sports’ car) tires AND a set of rear wheel brake pads!
I took my S2000 in for the annually required inspection, and for the first time in my life, my car failed inspection.
Lucky for me, I remember how much it cost the last time I had to replace all the tires. That knowledge let me know whether or not I was being taken advantage of, you know, being a woman and all.
Not only were they extremely fair, and threw in many discounts, they kept my car locked up nice and safe in their garage the entire time they had it in their possession.. Um. They had me at hello with that move.
I have found my new mechanic(s)! I got to be all up in the garage, like the good ole days. I want to see and learn everything you can show me about my car, Jeep and Harley.
The only reason this whole experience didn’t stress or freak me out is because I had set aside some year-end bonus money I had received from my bosses.
Unlike four years ago when the Honda shop let me know that I would soon need to replace my tires…..but I didn’t have the money so I waited…..yep, it is a freaking miracle that I did not blow out a tire and/or crash my car with the way I was driving on those old tires.
It was mind-blowing when the mechanic showed me the old tires. Yikes!
And my new tires, HOLY CRAP! It is like driving on air. The smoothest ride ever!
A bonus, I walked to the garage yesterday morning to pick up my car. I, um, walked in 25 degree windy but sunny weather at 8:30am on a Saturday to pick up my car….it was @ a 1 ½ miles walk and it felt FREAKING FANTASTIC!
That is the first time in months that I have worn tennis shoes. For real.
What used to be my norm (tennis shoes) had become flip-flops, and I’ve only been doing things that could be done in flip-flops. If I couldn’t do it in flip-flops, well, I wasn’t interested. hahaha
Not anymore. Tennis shoes are soooo back in the game for me.
Even better, I put out a FitBit Walking Challenge, which kinda fell off my radar when my beloved FitBit died, for next week and four people have already joined me!
One other productive/awesome thing I did, I got an Apple® iPhone® 7 Plus baby!
One thing about me, I don’t upgrade unless I need to.
This new phone is only the fourth phone I have owned in the last 20 years.
The sales rep was like, WOW, you really are getting an upgrade lady!
I went from a 4, not a 4s, to the 7 Plus. See. I don’t upgrade for the sake of upgrading. hahaha
Not only is my new, beautiful 7 Plus iPhone the BOMB, but I set it up start to finish all by myself!
Mama has come a long way in the tech world in the last five years!
Now, I need to go take a nap, there is way too much excitement going on in my world this weekend people.
I hope you have a Happy Weekend too!
Late 2009 through 2013 have got to be some of the darkest days of my life.
I hope that was my mid-life crisis because I do not wish to experience and feel like I did during those years ever again.
I broke. I mean I broke like I never dreamed possible for me.
Since then I have been building my life up again, day by day, year by year.
I have worked really hard all in areas of my life.
The ole broken foot last year set me back in the health and fitness department, and I am unclear about how I can get that side going again as I head into tax season with a newbie and for some reason challenged helper.
That really concerns me.
This morning. In this moment in time. ALL IS RIGHT IN MY WORLD.
I did it. I finally did it. I got my Hey Dude license plates back!!
I have been trying to get those personalized license plates back since 2010!
My signature thing is – Dude.
Hang around me long enough and you too will be using the term frequently.
When I had the plates before, they made people happy and were conversation starters.
Complete strangers would walk by me and say – Hey Dude. And I would be like – Hey Dude.
I remember a couple of times driving on the interstate and cars would pull up beside me giving me the thumbs up or rolling down their windows yelling – Hey Dude!!
Smiles and happy.
That is how I felt.
I had those plates at a high time in my life before, and now I have them back!
I worked very hard for those plates.
I deserve them.
And I will be enjoying them for the rest of my life.
Yep. I am going to be in my 80’s or maybe even 90’s driving around with Hey Dude license plates on my vehicle.
Granted I will be driving 5 miles per hour and people will be yelling – Hey Dude Get Out of The Way!!!
But I will be hard of hearing and remembering the good old days as I flash them my thumbs up and big smile.
Facebook has this nefty thing. They created a video showcasing your year for 2016.
I watched mine and was pleased.
You kind of forget all of the things you have done or experienced in a year.
I did the world a favor and did not share mine on Facebook.
After all, no one is as interested in my life as me.
2016 was fairly good for me.
Sad and low points…
I broke my foot and gained 30 extra pounds as a result. I had my birthday off during tax season BUT only because I was at the freaking foot doctor’s office for a boot and later had to return for a cast.
That was the first time I have ever broken anything and it was quite an eye opener how much such an incident can effect one’s life.
I would prefer not to ever go there again.
My grandmother passed away later in the year. I still cannot believe that one. She had always been so strong and tough, and she had also been in my life for all of the 45 years of my life. I really hate death.
On a positive note(s), um, I finally bought my Harley!
I also got to experience Go Ape Zip Line & Treetop Adventure not once, BUT TWICE, courtesy of the firm I work for.
I had never done zip lining before, and now I can cross it off my Bucket list! And each visit was a 3 hour physical endeavor and so what I needed.
One thing I am seriously currently struggling with is my commute to and from work.
I live 13 miles from the office, yet I spend up to 2 or 2 and half hours in traffic to and from DAILY.
I also drive a stick shift.
It is painful. Cramped foots and all. And I will probably blow the clutches way before their times as a result.
Plus it drains the hell out of you.
This is a very touchy point with me since I wasn’t supposed to be stuck in traffic.
My agreement to come back to the firm I am with was that I could off-set my hours so that I would NOT spend my life in rush hour.
I mean I officially and specifically said – I do not want to spend my life in rush hour.
But such is life, that did not work out as originally planned.
I am not sure what I am going to do about this as of yet.
My sister and very a close friend suggested that I move closer to work. I actually considered this and looked at some apartments right across the street from my office
Um. They are crazy expensive.
But you know what? I would be so unhappy living in Maryland.
I’ve tried it before and it just did not work for me.
In the DC metro area, you are either Team Virginia or Team Maryland.
I am team Virginia through and through.
So I am leaving all of that alone until after tax season. With a new receptionist I would not leave before she has gone through a tax season and understands as much as possible about the firm.
I love my job, wanted to grow with this firm in particular, but the commute is killing me.
Others in the firm also have long commutes. But they live far away AND they knowingly signed up for it.
I did not.
NOW. On to a positive note. I am super excited about this weekend!
A co-worker and I are going through a weekend motorcycle training course.
Yes. It will be held during the COLDEST weekend of the year thus far AND it will feel like working full-time over the weekend since the classes will run Friday night 6:45pm to 10pm and Saturday & Sunday from 7:30am to 6 pm…
But still, WE WILL BE RIDING MOTORCYCLES!!!
Although I now own a Harley AND I have a motorcycle license and have had it for YEARS…
I want a refresher course to feel more comfortable with driving my said beautiful Harley out on the open roads with more confidence.
One of my bosses is so eagerly waiting for the day I drive my Harley into work.
Now there is a greater chance it will be sooner rather than later AND now I am going to acquire a partner in crime.
I will have someone to ride with!
And his wife wants in on it too!! First as a passenger and then as a hell yeah driver!
Side note, she wants to be a driver now, but, good things come to those who wait.
Nonetheless, this my friends will be on the icing on my 2016 cake!
To hell with my horrible commute for now, this weekend I will be in heaven and I will be freezing my @ss off!
Happy Nearing the End of 2016!
Is what I wish someone had said to me last night.
I signed up to receive healthy recipes via email so (a) I could learn to cook outside my go to norms of chili and spaghetti and (b) I could eat better.
Last night I tried my hand at making Shrimp Scampi.
Those who know me know that I do not eat fish or seafood.
Every now and again I will eat shrimp.
After last night, it might be a while before mama ever goes there again!
I went shopping, even bought the fresh shrimp from the seafood counter getting all into Chef Lisa mode oh la la.
It tasted fine too. Actually it was pretty good! Shrimp scampi over pasta with a salad.
And then in the middle of the night, yuck.
I was quite ill.
And now even the thought of shrimp makes me gag.
If that wasn’t bad enough, I missed work today too.
BECAUSE OF MY OWN COOKING!
How sad is that?
So much for getting my Chef hat on.
It was so not cool missing today since my bosses just paid for the firm to experience a Go Ape adventure this past Friday.
I put it together. I was there. I had fun.
And then Monday, um, I am sorry…I cannot cook and will need to be out today because I’ll be spending the day in the bathroom.
I am a decent cook. I am not really sure what happened.
I did google it though.
“Can eating shrimp make you sick?”
Cuz it is the only thing I did different.
I did find that you can get sick from shrimp due to bacteria.
Who the hell knows?
I did lose 10 pounds from this experience.
Not really. I wish.
But it sure did feel like it!
All I know is, I will not be having shrimp anytime soon and I sure as heck will not be eating any shrimp I personally cook!
This little bugger did me in and took me down for a day….
“I WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU!!”
That is how I currently feel about shrimp and future shrimp cooking projects.
I did it.
I finally did it.
I bought a Harley Davidson motorcycle.
It only took me eight years.
What? I like to mull things over.
In late May of 2008, I took the Motorcycle Rider Training Program Course at a community college. I passed and obtain my motorcycle license.
Four years passed. I decided to take the training again prior to buying a bike.
In June of 2012, I took the Motorcycle Rider Training Program Course at Harley Davidson. I passed and again obtain my motorcycle license.
Four years passed.
During that four-year period I did take a private motorcycle refresher lesson to keep my skills fresh.
June 26, 2016 – I finally bought my Harley!
For the last six months I have been studying audio books like mad, cannot get enough.
That is probably because I find myself sitting in a lot of traffic to and fro work five days a week, so I might as well do something useful.
The book that had the most impact recently is The 4-Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss.
My job is not mobile so I really cannot use the remote workweek as suggested. However there is a lot of other useful information throughout the book.
The point that hit home for me was his thoughts on retirement.
We work until we can retire (if we are lucky), but your strongest years have passed in the process.
Strongest in that, when you are most vital, at your peak, you are busy working yourself to death so you can retire.
He suggests mini retirements along the course of your life.
Do some of the things now, along the way that you really, really want to do and experience in your lifetime.
For me, I want to own and ride a motorcycle. I’ve been at this for 8 years so I don’t think this is a passing fling.
I knew that if I didn’t do it now, I never would. For. Real.
What was I going to do, wait until I retired and couldn’t handle a motorcycle?
God willing, now I have at least 20 years of riding in my future.
I finally took out all of the other factors, like worrying about people worrying about me and instead went with the deep desire that I and I only have – I want a motorcycle.
I don’t want regrets. I want to live and experience things that bring me joy. Plus you only have one life.
I will work hard, I will work long but there has to be something of value on the other side that makes it all worthwhile.
I’ll share the other books that have been shaping my thought processes soon.
Books that have led me to studying Accounting Fundamentals I and II online, the thought of earning a Bookkeeping Certificate to further my skills at work and perhaps make money on the side, and books that have helped me to increase my 401k savings while paying my bills and buying my motorcycle.
For now, I hope you will look at your own life.
Is there something that you really, really want or need to try now?
It doesn’t have to be big to bring a whole lot of satisfaction and happiness into your life.
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