Go back to school?
Buy a condo?
Seems to me if one keeps pondering the same things, perhaps one should do something about it.
Go back to school?
Buy a condo?
Seems to me if one keeps pondering the same things, perhaps one should do something about it.
I don’t know if you saw it or not, but the other day all the search engines, or at least Google and Internet Explorer, had a link promoting Internet Safety Day.
Of course I clicked the link!
I went through the process, and even though my account had not been compromised, I followed the change password instructions.
What could that hurt right?
Well now I have gone and dorked up my Outlook connection to my Gmail account.
I mean dorked up, cannot fix, have done everything but stand on my head to correct.
I remember when I set up the connection in the beginning.
My sis and bro-in-law had moved across county, and up until that point they had been my technical support team and advisers.
I was pleased as punch when I set it up myself being left to my own devices.
I even called my sister to share the outstanding news.
I don’t remember it being all that hard, so why I cannot figure it out now is beyond me.
I even went the straight up advanced settings route and thought I had it going on, but um, no. Nothing works!!
I was out sick yesterday, achy and feeling feverish, so all I did was eat and sleep…..and think about this stupid internet connection faux pas I have created.
I woke up this morning, feeling much better thank you, and thought….manual set-up.
That was the first thing that popped into my head. I was like – that has got to be it!!
And by going the manual set-up route I did make more progress than I previously had, but alas – no go.
I have the sending side set up and working, but the receiving side, not so much!
Oh well. It will be a weekend project. Grrrrr.
On a positive note, things at work are going much better!
I guess you can’t have it all going on at the same time.
I was re-inspired to pick up my lifelong learning tendency again.
I’ve been studying audio books again since December 2015, because what else are you supposed to do when you are sitting in 2 hours of daily traffic to and fro work, you know that traffic you are not supposed to be sitting in because that was not part of the hiring agreement .
Sorry I digress, that is a very sore spot for me.
And that was complaining and bitching. hahaha
Anyhow, I have been studying audio book since December 2015.
The topics I have studied include: Inspiration, Spirituality, Health, Fitness, Self-Development, Money and Business.
I have purchased and listened to 47 books. And some of them I have listened to many times over.
My focus for the last 9 plus months has been on business.
In particular, I have been studying extremely successful WOMEN and really taking heed in what they have to say.
One of the more recent studies was Nice Girls Don’t Get The Corner Office by Lois Frankel.
Boy did she give me a lot to think about.
She totally blew my plans out of the water by making complete sense as to why I will not get to where I want to go on my current path.
In March, I will be turning 46 and I thought I’d be making $100k by that age.
That may sound like a lot of money, unless you live in the DC metro area and you are the sole-provider for your present and future living conditions and you presently rent so your cost of living increase annually.
In my vision, the $100k didn’t necessarily have to come from one source.
I am not lazy and could work on the side doing bookkeeping or so many other things for others.
But with my current job, commute and maybe even industry – that is not possible.
Frankel pointed out that many women earn certificates or degrees while working but cannot move up where they work once they complete their studies because they have been type cast and are only needed for the position they have been hired to fill.
She also shared that the new norm for those who want to move up is to work for a company for three to five years, learn all that you can and do everything you can for them….and move to another company with a higher position.
Gone are the days that you stay somewhere for your working career, unless of course you have made it to the top, then by all means stay and reap what you have sown and enjoy!
I’ve been with my current company, two different times and positions, for a total of five years.
I’ve learned a lot, and I feel like I have given a lot in return.
Now I want more, but not necessarily more in the way of duties.
I keep getting more and new things to do at work and that is awesome!
Slight problem, these additions are on top of what I was already doing.
So. That is where I am.
My heart says, I want and can do far more.
My mind says, I am open and keep learning.
My body says, girl, you better get me back in shape! Don’t you know it helps in all areas of life to be fit and attractive?
My broken foot last year and my love for margaritas have totally dorked up my body!
My focus now, due to tax season, is doing the best job possible at work while focusing on body (fitness and health) too.
That is about all I will have time for until all is said and done aka Tax Day Deadline.
And then we shall see what I can do with the rest of 2017.
Facebook has this nefty thing. They created a video showcasing your year for 2016.
I watched mine and was pleased.
You kind of forget all of the things you have done or experienced in a year.
I did the world a favor and did not share mine on Facebook.
After all, no one is as interested in my life as me.
2016 was fairly good for me.
Sad and low points…
I broke my foot and gained 30 extra pounds as a result. I had my birthday off during tax season BUT only because I was at the freaking foot doctor’s office for a boot and later had to return for a cast.
That was the first time I have ever broken anything and it was quite an eye opener how much such an incident can effect one’s life.
I would prefer not to ever go there again.
My grandmother passed away later in the year. I still cannot believe that one. She had always been so strong and tough, and she had also been in my life for all of the 45 years of my life. I really hate death.
On a positive note(s), um, I finally bought my Harley!
I also got to experience Go Ape Zip Line & Treetop Adventure not once, BUT TWICE, courtesy of the firm I work for.
I had never done zip lining before, and now I can cross it off my Bucket list! And each visit was a 3 hour physical endeavor and so what I needed.
One thing I am seriously currently struggling with is my commute to and from work.
I live 13 miles from the office, yet I spend up to 2 or 2 and half hours in traffic to and from DAILY.
I also drive a stick shift.
It is painful. Cramped foots and all. And I will probably blow the clutches way before their times as a result.
Plus it drains the hell out of you.
This is a very touchy point with me since I wasn’t supposed to be stuck in traffic.
My agreement to come back to the firm I am with was that I could off-set my hours so that I would NOT spend my life in rush hour.
I mean I officially and specifically said – I do not want to spend my life in rush hour.
But such is life, that did not work out as originally planned.
I am not sure what I am going to do about this as of yet.
My sister and very a close friend suggested that I move closer to work. I actually considered this and looked at some apartments right across the street from my office
Um. They are crazy expensive.
But you know what? I would be so unhappy living in Maryland.
I’ve tried it before and it just did not work for me.
In the DC metro area, you are either Team Virginia or Team Maryland.
I am team Virginia through and through.
So I am leaving all of that alone until after tax season. With a new receptionist I would not leave before she has gone through a tax season and understands as much as possible about the firm.
I love my job, wanted to grow with this firm in particular, but the commute is killing me.
Others in the firm also have long commutes. But they live far away AND they knowingly signed up for it.
I did not.
NOW. On to a positive note. I am super excited about this weekend!
A co-worker and I are going through a weekend motorcycle training course.
Yes. It will be held during the COLDEST weekend of the year thus far AND it will feel like working full-time over the weekend since the classes will run Friday night 6:45pm to 10pm and Saturday & Sunday from 7:30am to 6 pm…
But still, WE WILL BE RIDING MOTORCYCLES!!!
Although I now own a Harley AND I have a motorcycle license and have had it for YEARS…
I want a refresher course to feel more comfortable with driving my said beautiful Harley out on the open roads with more confidence.
One of my bosses is so eagerly waiting for the day I drive my Harley into work.
Now there is a greater chance it will be sooner rather than later AND now I am going to acquire a partner in crime.
I will have someone to ride with!
And his wife wants in on it too!! First as a passenger and then as a hell yeah driver!
Side note, she wants to be a driver now, but, good things come to those who wait.
Nonetheless, this my friends will be on the icing on my 2016 cake!
To hell with my horrible commute for now, this weekend I will be in heaven and I will be freezing my @ss off!
Happy Nearing the End of 2016!
I did it.
I finally did it.
I bought a Harley Davidson motorcycle.
It only took me eight years.
What? I like to mull things over.
In late May of 2008, I took the Motorcycle Rider Training Program Course at a community college. I passed and obtain my motorcycle license.
Four years passed. I decided to take the training again prior to buying a bike.
In June of 2012, I took the Motorcycle Rider Training Program Course at Harley Davidson. I passed and again obtain my motorcycle license.
Four years passed.
During that four-year period I did take a private motorcycle refresher lesson to keep my skills fresh.
June 26, 2016 – I finally bought my Harley!
For the last six months I have been studying audio books like mad, cannot get enough.
That is probably because I find myself sitting in a lot of traffic to and fro work five days a week, so I might as well do something useful.
The book that had the most impact recently is The 4-Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss.
My job is not mobile so I really cannot use the remote workweek as suggested. However there is a lot of other useful information throughout the book.
The point that hit home for me was his thoughts on retirement.
We work until we can retire (if we are lucky), but your strongest years have passed in the process.
Strongest in that, when you are most vital, at your peak, you are busy working yourself to death so you can retire.
He suggests mini retirements along the course of your life.
Do some of the things now, along the way that you really, really want to do and experience in your lifetime.
For me, I want to own and ride a motorcycle. I’ve been at this for 8 years so I don’t think this is a passing fling.
I knew that if I didn’t do it now, I never would. For. Real.
What was I going to do, wait until I retired and couldn’t handle a motorcycle?
God willing, now I have at least 20 years of riding in my future.
I finally took out all of the other factors, like worrying about people worrying about me and instead went with the deep desire that I and I only have – I want a motorcycle.
I don’t want regrets. I want to live and experience things that bring me joy. Plus you only have one life.
I will work hard, I will work long but there has to be something of value on the other side that makes it all worthwhile.
I’ll share the other books that have been shaping my thought processes soon.
Books that have led me to studying Accounting Fundamentals I and II online, the thought of earning a Bookkeeping Certificate to further my skills at work and perhaps make money on the side, and books that have helped me to increase my 401k savings while paying my bills and buying my motorcycle.
For now, I hope you will look at your own life.
Is there something that you really, really want or need to try now?
It doesn’t have to be big to bring a whole lot of satisfaction and happiness into your life.
I need a change.
I am just not certain which department(s) I want to make a change.
In my last post I shared my dream condo.
Since then I qualified for a loan to purchase a two bedroom condo in the same building. Not my dream condo, but a 2 bedroom condo at least.
Back in May when I started thinking about buying a condo I pulled into that complex, parked and called my dad. We usually talk every weekend and it was getting late.
He asked me what I was doing and I said ~ Oh you know, just sitting in front of the place I am going to buy a condo in one day.
Damn if I didn’t park right in front of the very building that currently has the two 2 bedroom condos for sale.
Last Tuesday as I drove into work, I decide, screw it, I am going to buy a motorcycle. I have wanted one for so long.
It is a commitment, but not a lifetime commitment like a condo could be.
A co-worker and I went for a walk at lunch later that day, and she asked me how my condo search was going.
I told her about my dream condo and shared that if I could not have that one, I wasn’t going to buy anything right now.
She told how her first place wasn’t her dream place either, but she bought it, kept it for a while, and sold it at a profit. The profit which then enabled her to buy her current home, the type she really wanted all along.
So then she clouded up my motorcycle choice! hahaha
I had to run down to the bank for my boss and one of the woman I had ask about mortgages before came over to me and asked me for my contact information again because she had misplaced it.
That led to me talking with a mortgage guy who has approved me for two different price points that I am currently sitting with.
I crunched numbers over the weekend and I’d be house poor if I proceeded.
I’ve been house poor before. It really isn’t any fun owning a beautiful home but not being able to do anything else.
I have also thought about going back to school.
You can make good money in accounting. Plus I like it.
I started down this path a while back, but it took everything in me to get an A in the class, to include all my time.
That idea isn’t very appealing to me at this moment in time.
And I don’t think I have it in me to go after becoming a CPA, which would be the next step.
I mean the amount of work and years that would take makes my head hurt.
Plus, I’d be a newbie.
I really wish I had taking the accounting/business path in college.
That is one thing I would do differently if I could do it all over again.
As I think about every which way but loose, I get frustrated and don’t know exactly what I want to change.
But there is one thing I am currently taking control over and changing, and that is my health and fitness.
I’ve got a friend who is a personal trainer who is going to create a workout plan for me and guide me via FaceTime. She moved to Texas, so this is the best option we have.
I might even be a model in an upcoming fitness instructional video for her business!
I am also in talks with my boss’s personal trainer.
We weren’t able to meet up this weekend, but he did present me with many options to choose from, so the ball is now in my court to get back in touch with him when I decide what I want.
Again, it is about creating a plan and showing me properly how to do the exercises and what to do to achieve what I want. After that it is all up to me.
My Fitbit, now that has been the very BEST piece of technology that I have ever bought!
It so totally rocks.
I have been participating in weekly Monday – Friday challenges for 5 weeks now.
I have won 3 of the 5, and one of the weeks that I lost was because I was on vacation and not going to move unless the building was on fire.
This past week’s challenge was the best so far.
We had a guy join us, and boy did I have to really work for my win. All the way up until midnight!
In return, I set a personal record of 95,326 steps in five days.
That is 38.05 miles in 5 days!
That is an average of 7.61 miles a day during the work week!!
I never would have gone that far, nor that hard had he not joined the challenge.
And I am pretty sure as I busted booty trying to catch up to him and then barely pass him; he was relaxing somewhere having a beer.
He could have beaten me too; all he had to do was walk back and forth to the bathroom or something a couple of times there at the end.
But I won, so I will take it!
We have another challenge starting this Monday, and 6 people signed up so far wanting to push themselves farther this next week too.
It is my greatest hope that a lot more of us are competing for 1st place.
It makes things so much more interesting, challenging and fun!
I’ll just let go of all of the other things that are driving me crazy, and go for a walk or something.
I’ll make a change in another department when I know what I want and when I know the moment is right.
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