Go back to school?
Buy a condo?
Seems to me if one keeps pondering the same things, perhaps one should do something about it.
Go back to school?
Buy a condo?
Seems to me if one keeps pondering the same things, perhaps one should do something about it.
I am pretty excited… I’ll be joining a group of lovely ladies to participle with in this year’s Ukrop’s 10k on Saturday, April 1st!
It is something I’ve tried to do annually with my girl Janie since 2011.
In 2011, I was 40 and finished the race in 1 hour, 15 minutes and 53 seconds.
In 2012, I was 41 and finished the race in 1 hour, 14 minutes and 46 seconds.
In 2015, yeah I took a couple of years off, I was 43 finished the race in 1 hour, 22 minutes and 55 seconds.
And now in 2017, because last year I broke my foot and I could not participate, I will be 4 days into my 46th year of life and my only goal is…..to complete the race! hahaha
My times might not sound like all of that, but to me they rock.
You see, each time I just up and did 6.2 miles with no training in the middle of tax season and I have remained pretty consistent through the years.
I even get up at the crack of dawn, drive 2+ hours, do the race, have lunch and drive the 2+ hours back.
Now that alone has got to be impressive! hahaha
I am not sure what this year holds due to the extra weight I am carrying courtesy of the previously mentioned broken foot last year, but if I can remain consistent, I will be over the moon!
And even if I cannot, but I at least finish the race, well, I will still be as pleased as punch and proud of myself.
I hope you sign up to do something you think you might not be able to pull off this year too, it does wonders for the soul.
Late 2009 through 2013 have got to be some of the darkest days of my life.
I hope that was my mid-life crisis because I do not wish to experience and feel like I did during those years ever again.
I broke. I mean I broke like I never dreamed possible for me.
Since then I have been building my life up again, day by day, year by year.
I have worked really hard all in areas of my life.
The ole broken foot last year set me back in the health and fitness department, and I am unclear about how I can get that side going again as I head into tax season with a newbie and for some reason challenged helper.
That really concerns me.
This morning. In this moment in time. ALL IS RIGHT IN MY WORLD.
I did it. I finally did it. I got my Hey Dude license plates back!!
I have been trying to get those personalized license plates back since 2010!
My signature thing is – Dude.
Hang around me long enough and you too will be using the term frequently.
When I had the plates before, they made people happy and were conversation starters.
Complete strangers would walk by me and say – Hey Dude. And I would be like – Hey Dude.
I remember a couple of times driving on the interstate and cars would pull up beside me giving me the thumbs up or rolling down their windows yelling – Hey Dude!!
Smiles and happy.
That is how I felt.
I had those plates at a high time in my life before, and now I have them back!
I worked very hard for those plates.
I deserve them.
And I will be enjoying them for the rest of my life.
Yep. I am going to be in my 80’s or maybe even 90’s driving around with Hey Dude license plates on my vehicle.
Granted I will be driving 5 miles per hour and people will be yelling – Hey Dude Get Out of The Way!!!
But I will be hard of hearing and remembering the good old days as I flash them my thumbs up and big smile.
I was re-inspired to pick up my lifelong learning tendency again.
I’ve been studying audio books again since December 2015, because what else are you supposed to do when you are sitting in 2 hours of daily traffic to and fro work, you know that traffic you are not supposed to be sitting in because that was not part of the hiring agreement .
Sorry I digress, that is a very sore spot for me.
And that was complaining and bitching. hahaha
Anyhow, I have been studying audio book since December 2015.
The topics I have studied include: Inspiration, Spirituality, Health, Fitness, Self-Development, Money and Business.
I have purchased and listened to 47 books. And some of them I have listened to many times over.
My focus for the last 9 plus months has been on business.
In particular, I have been studying extremely successful WOMEN and really taking heed in what they have to say.
One of the more recent studies was Nice Girls Don’t Get The Corner Office by Lois Frankel.
Boy did she give me a lot to think about.
She totally blew my plans out of the water by making complete sense as to why I will not get to where I want to go on my current path.
In March, I will be turning 46 and I thought I’d be making $100k by that age.
That may sound like a lot of money, unless you live in the DC metro area and you are the sole-provider for your present and future living conditions and you presently rent so your cost of living increase annually.
In my vision, the $100k didn’t necessarily have to come from one source.
I am not lazy and could work on the side doing bookkeeping or so many other things for others.
But with my current job, commute and maybe even industry – that is not possible.
Frankel pointed out that many women earn certificates or degrees while working but cannot move up where they work once they complete their studies because they have been type cast and are only needed for the position they have been hired to fill.
She also shared that the new norm for those who want to move up is to work for a company for three to five years, learn all that you can and do everything you can for them….and move to another company with a higher position.
Gone are the days that you stay somewhere for your working career, unless of course you have made it to the top, then by all means stay and reap what you have sown and enjoy!
I’ve been with my current company, two different times and positions, for a total of five years.
I’ve learned a lot, and I feel like I have given a lot in return.
Now I want more, but not necessarily more in the way of duties.
I keep getting more and new things to do at work and that is awesome!
Slight problem, these additions are on top of what I was already doing.
So. That is where I am.
My heart says, I want and can do far more.
My mind says, I am open and keep learning.
My body says, girl, you better get me back in shape! Don’t you know it helps in all areas of life to be fit and attractive?
My broken foot last year and my love for margaritas have totally dorked up my body!
My focus now, due to tax season, is doing the best job possible at work while focusing on body (fitness and health) too.
That is about all I will have time for until all is said and done aka Tax Day Deadline.
And then we shall see what I can do with the rest of 2017.
Facebook has this nefty thing. They created a video showcasing your year for 2016.
I watched mine and was pleased.
You kind of forget all of the things you have done or experienced in a year.
I did the world a favor and did not share mine on Facebook.
After all, no one is as interested in my life as me.
2016 was fairly good for me.
Sad and low points…
I broke my foot and gained 30 extra pounds as a result. I had my birthday off during tax season BUT only because I was at the freaking foot doctor’s office for a boot and later had to return for a cast.
That was the first time I have ever broken anything and it was quite an eye opener how much such an incident can effect one’s life.
I would prefer not to ever go there again.
My grandmother passed away later in the year. I still cannot believe that one. She had always been so strong and tough, and she had also been in my life for all of the 45 years of my life. I really hate death.
On a positive note(s), um, I finally bought my Harley!
I also got to experience Go Ape Zip Line & Treetop Adventure not once, BUT TWICE, courtesy of the firm I work for.
I had never done zip lining before, and now I can cross it off my Bucket list! And each visit was a 3 hour physical endeavor and so what I needed.
One thing I am seriously currently struggling with is my commute to and from work.
I live 13 miles from the office, yet I spend up to 2 or 2 and half hours in traffic to and from DAILY.
I also drive a stick shift.
It is painful. Cramped foots and all. And I will probably blow the clutches way before their times as a result.
Plus it drains the hell out of you.
This is a very touchy point with me since I wasn’t supposed to be stuck in traffic.
My agreement to come back to the firm I am with was that I could off-set my hours so that I would NOT spend my life in rush hour.
I mean I officially and specifically said – I do not want to spend my life in rush hour.
But such is life, that did not work out as originally planned.
I am not sure what I am going to do about this as of yet.
My sister and very a close friend suggested that I move closer to work. I actually considered this and looked at some apartments right across the street from my office
Um. They are crazy expensive.
But you know what? I would be so unhappy living in Maryland.
I’ve tried it before and it just did not work for me.
In the DC metro area, you are either Team Virginia or Team Maryland.
I am team Virginia through and through.
So I am leaving all of that alone until after tax season. With a new receptionist I would not leave before she has gone through a tax season and understands as much as possible about the firm.
I love my job, wanted to grow with this firm in particular, but the commute is killing me.
Others in the firm also have long commutes. But they live far away AND they knowingly signed up for it.
I did not.
NOW. On to a positive note. I am super excited about this weekend!
A co-worker and I are going through a weekend motorcycle training course.
Yes. It will be held during the COLDEST weekend of the year thus far AND it will feel like working full-time over the weekend since the classes will run Friday night 6:45pm to 10pm and Saturday & Sunday from 7:30am to 6 pm…
But still, WE WILL BE RIDING MOTORCYCLES!!!
Although I now own a Harley AND I have a motorcycle license and have had it for YEARS…
I want a refresher course to feel more comfortable with driving my said beautiful Harley out on the open roads with more confidence.
One of my bosses is so eagerly waiting for the day I drive my Harley into work.
Now there is a greater chance it will be sooner rather than later AND now I am going to acquire a partner in crime.
I will have someone to ride with!
And his wife wants in on it too!! First as a passenger and then as a hell yeah driver!
Side note, she wants to be a driver now, but, good things come to those who wait.
Nonetheless, this my friends will be on the icing on my 2016 cake!
To hell with my horrible commute for now, this weekend I will be in heaven and I will be freezing my @ss off!
Happy Nearing the End of 2016!
Is what I wish someone had said to me last night.
I signed up to receive healthy recipes via email so (a) I could learn to cook outside my go to norms of chili and spaghetti and (b) I could eat better.
Last night I tried my hand at making Shrimp Scampi.
Those who know me know that I do not eat fish or seafood.
Every now and again I will eat shrimp.
After last night, it might be a while before mama ever goes there again!
I went shopping, even bought the fresh shrimp from the seafood counter getting all into Chef Lisa mode oh la la.
It tasted fine too. Actually it was pretty good! Shrimp scampi over pasta with a salad.
And then in the middle of the night, yuck.
I was quite ill.
And now even the thought of shrimp makes me gag.
If that wasn’t bad enough, I missed work today too.
BECAUSE OF MY OWN COOKING!
How sad is that?
So much for getting my Chef hat on.
It was so not cool missing today since my bosses just paid for the firm to experience a Go Ape adventure this past Friday.
I put it together. I was there. I had fun.
And then Monday, um, I am sorry…I cannot cook and will need to be out today because I’ll be spending the day in the bathroom.
I am a decent cook. I am not really sure what happened.
I did google it though.
“Can eating shrimp make you sick?”
Cuz it is the only thing I did different.
I did find that you can get sick from shrimp due to bacteria.
Who the hell knows?
I did lose 10 pounds from this experience.
Not really. I wish.
But it sure did feel like it!
All I know is, I will not be having shrimp anytime soon and I sure as heck will not be eating any shrimp I personally cook!
This little bugger did me in and took me down for a day….
“I WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU!!”
That is how I currently feel about shrimp and future shrimp cooking projects.
Holy wow! I cannot believe so much time has passed since I last posted.
A lot has happened.
My grandmother passed away, the receptionist resigned to pursue a job more in line with her goals and I pretty much did the work of two people to get the firm I work for through the October 15th tax deadline.
Luckily we did find someone rather quickly to become the new receptionist. But when you are new, there is only so much you can do. She did catch onto our phone system quickly, and that was a tremendous help!
All of that led me to unknowingly showing up to sign up for classes two days past the start date, so alas – I am not taking classes right now. I wasn’t able to join late, even though it was only two days.
But, after all I have been through; this is really not such a bad thing.
Such is life. The classes will be there on the next start date.
Let’s hope I make it there in time! hahaha
Right now I am struggling with a different decision.
Here’s what woke me up Thursday morning….in my dream I was frantically driving my S2000 trying to find my way home after one hell of a day. I drove between what I thought were two narrow construction barriers. But the space kept narrowing and I discovered I was in between two semi trucks. They inched forward four paces – 1. 2. 3. 4. Each time coming closer together and each pace crushed my car more with me very aware what was happening, but the truck drivers didn’t know. I woke up right before the next pace forward which would have sandwich crushed me and my car completely. Um. So not cool that this is the last thing I dreamed before waking up.
I posted my dream and the picture on Facebook and a couple of friends pointed out, um, I think you have too much stress going on in your life right now.
I looked up the meaning of my dream on Google, which I do if a dream sticks with me so vividly. For me, it makes sense that dreams consolidate and process information gathered. It is your brain trying to solve something when the fully conscious mind is at rest.
The meanings I found:
The action of crushing anything in your dream indicates that you are under tension and/or pressure in regard to making an important decision.
If you dream that a part of your body is being crushed, then it suggests that you are being prevented to full express yourself.
I think both of these fit my situation.
I love my job. And I enjoy the people I work with.
But the commuting is crushing my spirit and pretty much making me an asshole when in traffic. I now have little patience or tolerance for slow drivers, and I really don’t like being so aggressive.
When I signed on to return to working for my current firm, my two must were: return me to my former salary and during non-tax season allow me to come in early and leave early to avoid traffic. My main pitch was, I don’t want to spend my life in rush hour traffic.
The sad thing is that I only live 12.5 miles from my job, yet I spend 7 – 7.5 hours a week going to and fro. That is almost an entire work day’s worth of hours spent commuting each week. That is depressing.
In the end it didn’t work out well for me to come in early and leave early during non-tax season. My job is kind of really need to be on-site during business hours kind of job.
Even shifting my hours to coming in an hour later and leaving an hour later still has me with the 7 – 7.5 hours a week going to and fro commute.
I have been doing this for 2 and half years.
So this is where I am now…What do I do from here?
I am still trying to figure it out.
Maybe a less disturbing dream will happen tonight to shed some light on my situation.
Something warm and fuzzy…
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