Check it out!
Look what mama got for Valentine’s Day…..the plates I have been trying for years to get back….
Hope you have a fantastic Valentine’s Day too!
Check it out!
Look what mama got for Valentine’s Day…..the plates I have been trying for years to get back….
Hope you have a fantastic Valentine’s Day too!
Um, no thank you.
I know I have been complaining (bitching) about work lately, and I would like to retract previously aired complaints.
I complain when I feel frustrated, when I feel like I have given a lot and it seems to be going unnoticed.
I do not give to get and my work MO is pretty much work as if you own the company, while trying to keep some balance in your life.
I still have trouble with that second part. hahaha
As of late, my bosses (1 & 2) have made it more than worth my while to remain where I am doing what I do. Wind blowing and appreciated beyond belief!
I really do work at a great firm, and I work for great bosses and I love what I do and the people I work with….with the exception of the receptionist whom, unfortunately, I hired myself. Oh, and I still dislike my pain in the @ss commute. hahaha
As for my helper, I was told – She is a really nice person (and she is) and she is a great receptionist (and she is that too) but outside of that….she really wants to help, but….
Ok, so I really and truly thought – I can straight up train anyone. Guess what? Not so much.
We shall see what the other side of tax season holds. She still has time to turn things around. But that is an inside job. I cannot make you care about the quality of your work nor can I make you care about our firm as much as I do.
Speaking of which, yesterday, I made a point to show all of the accountants who have had to work on Saturdays for a month now just how much I care about and appreciate them.
I sent them an email about noon….
Lunch is on me peeps! Enjoy.
I enjoy working with each and every one of you and I love my job and bosses!
1 Italian sandwich (for Boss #1)
1 Chicken Parmesan sandwich with light cheese (for Boss #2)
1 chicken, apple and something salad for (Co-worker who is specifically trying to watch their weight)
The rest is for all to share and should hit upon each and everyone’s taste!
Happy Saturday people and soon enough I will be working Saturdays AND Sundays and all will be right in the world.
Enjoy and I appreciate you, Happy Valentine’s Day Weekend!!
I ordered and had delivered…..sandwiches, salads, multiple pizzas (to include veggie for our vegetarian), garlic knots and multiple desserts from Domino’s Pizza.
Boy they were all surprised!
And they were each extremely appreciative. They emailed me separately to say thank you in their own way.
I love doing things like that.
And because of my bosses’ generosity towards me, I was able to.
They have been generous to the others too; it is not all about me.
But if you do something great for me, I am going to want to do something great for you that you are not expecting, just to say – Thank you. I really appreciate what you have done.
From what I have heard, there is a lot of pizza left over. So, I am going to reap rewards from what I sown. hahaha
Happy Valentine’s Day Weekend, I hope you totally surprise someone who has done something that has meant a lot to you.
It doesn’t have to be big, just from the heart.
I don’t know if you saw it or not, but the other day all the search engines, or at least Google and Internet Explorer, had a link promoting Internet Safety Day.
Of course I clicked the link!
I went through the process, and even though my account had not been compromised, I followed the change password instructions.
What could that hurt right?
Well now I have gone and dorked up my Outlook connection to my Gmail account.
I mean dorked up, cannot fix, have done everything but stand on my head to correct.
I remember when I set up the connection in the beginning.
My sis and bro-in-law had moved across county, and up until that point they had been my technical support team and advisers.
I was pleased as punch when I set it up myself being left to my own devices.
I even called my sister to share the outstanding news.
I don’t remember it being all that hard, so why I cannot figure it out now is beyond me.
I even went the straight up advanced settings route and thought I had it going on, but um, no. Nothing works!!
I was out sick yesterday, achy and feeling feverish, so all I did was eat and sleep…..and think about this stupid internet connection faux pas I have created.
I woke up this morning, feeling much better thank you, and thought….manual set-up.
That was the first thing that popped into my head. I was like – that has got to be it!!
And by going the manual set-up route I did make more progress than I previously had, but alas – no go.
I have the sending side set up and working, but the receiving side, not so much!
Oh well. It will be a weekend project. Grrrrr.
On a positive note, things at work are going much better!
I guess you can’t have it all going on at the same time.
I am pretty excited… I’ll be joining a group of lovely ladies to participle with in this year’s Ukrop’s 10k on Saturday, April 1st!
It is something I’ve tried to do annually with my girl Janie since 2011.
In 2011, I was 40 and finished the race in 1 hour, 15 minutes and 53 seconds.
In 2012, I was 41 and finished the race in 1 hour, 14 minutes and 46 seconds.
In 2015, yeah I took a couple of years off, I was 43 finished the race in 1 hour, 22 minutes and 55 seconds.
And now in 2017, because last year I broke my foot and I could not participate, I will be 4 days into my 46th year of life and my only goal is…..to complete the race! hahaha
My times might not sound like all of that, but to me they rock.
You see, each time I just up and did 6.2 miles with no training in the middle of tax season and I have remained pretty consistent through the years.
I even get up at the crack of dawn, drive 2+ hours, do the race, have lunch and drive the 2+ hours back.
Now that alone has got to be impressive! hahaha
I am not sure what this year holds due to the extra weight I am carrying courtesy of the previously mentioned broken foot last year, but if I can remain consistent, I will be over the moon!
And even if I cannot, but I at least finish the race, well, I will still be as pleased as punch and proud of myself.
I hope you sign up to do something you think you might not be able to pull off this year too, it does wonders for the soul.
I stepped away from work this weekend. I mean like for real.
This is the first weekend in a month that I did not bring any work home.
My boss is at the Super Bowl with his son. Pretty neat, huh?
Well, if the busiest man in the firm can take a little time to step away to enjoy life a bit before we are all living at the office, well I needed to follow suit.
I really needed it too – mentally, physically and emotionally.
As a result I have great news! I have been very productive this weekend, taking care of me things.
I am now the proud owner of four new (sports’ car) tires AND a set of rear wheel brake pads!
I took my S2000 in for the annually required inspection, and for the first time in my life, my car failed inspection.
Lucky for me, I remember how much it cost the last time I had to replace all the tires. That knowledge let me know whether or not I was being taken advantage of, you know, being a woman and all.
Not only were they extremely fair, and threw in many discounts, they kept my car locked up nice and safe in their garage the entire time they had it in their possession.. Um. They had me at hello with that move.
I have found my new mechanic(s)! I got to be all up in the garage, like the good ole days. I want to see and learn everything you can show me about my car, Jeep and Harley.
The only reason this whole experience didn’t stress or freak me out is because I had set aside some year-end bonus money I had received from my bosses.
Unlike four years ago when the Honda shop let me know that I would soon need to replace my tires…..but I didn’t have the money so I waited…..yep, it is a freaking miracle that I did not blow out a tire and/or crash my car with the way I was driving on those old tires.
It was mind-blowing when the mechanic showed me the old tires. Yikes!
And my new tires, HOLY CRAP! It is like driving on air. The smoothest ride ever!
A bonus, I walked to the garage yesterday morning to pick up my car. I, um, walked in 25 degree windy but sunny weather at 8:30am on a Saturday to pick up my car….it was @ a 1 ½ miles walk and it felt FREAKING FANTASTIC!
That is the first time in months that I have worn tennis shoes. For real.
What used to be my norm (tennis shoes) had become flip-flops, and I’ve only been doing things that could be done in flip-flops. If I couldn’t do it in flip-flops, well, I wasn’t interested. hahaha
Not anymore. Tennis shoes are soooo back in the game for me.
Even better, I put out a FitBit Walking Challenge, which kinda fell off my radar when my beloved FitBit died, for next week and four people have already joined me!
One other productive/awesome thing I did, I got an Apple® iPhone® 7 Plus baby!
One thing about me, I don’t upgrade unless I need to.
This new phone is only the fourth phone I have owned in the last 20 years.
The sales rep was like, WOW, you really are getting an upgrade lady!
I went from a 4, not a 4s, to the 7 Plus. See. I don’t upgrade for the sake of upgrading. hahaha
Not only is my new, beautiful 7 Plus iPhone the BOMB, but I set it up start to finish all by myself!
Mama has come a long way in the tech world in the last five years!
Now, I need to go take a nap, there is way too much excitement going on in my world this weekend people.
I hope you have a Happy Weekend too!
Late 2009 through 2013 have got to be some of the darkest days of my life.
I hope that was my mid-life crisis because I do not wish to experience and feel like I did during those years ever again.
I broke. I mean I broke like I never dreamed possible for me.
Since then I have been building my life up again, day by day, year by year.
I have worked really hard all in areas of my life.
The ole broken foot last year set me back in the health and fitness department, and I am unclear about how I can get that side going again as I head into tax season with a newbie and for some reason challenged helper.
That really concerns me.
This morning. In this moment in time. ALL IS RIGHT IN MY WORLD.
I did it. I finally did it. I got my Hey Dude license plates back!!
I have been trying to get those personalized license plates back since 2010!
My signature thing is – Dude.
Hang around me long enough and you too will be using the term frequently.
When I had the plates before, they made people happy and were conversation starters.
Complete strangers would walk by me and say – Hey Dude. And I would be like – Hey Dude.
I remember a couple of times driving on the interstate and cars would pull up beside me giving me the thumbs up or rolling down their windows yelling – Hey Dude!!
Smiles and happy.
That is how I felt.
I had those plates at a high time in my life before, and now I have them back!
I worked very hard for those plates.
I deserve them.
And I will be enjoying them for the rest of my life.
Yep. I am going to be in my 80’s or maybe even 90’s driving around with Hey Dude license plates on my vehicle.
Granted I will be driving 5 miles per hour and people will be yelling – Hey Dude Get Out of The Way!!!
But I will be hard of hearing and remembering the good old days as I flash them my thumbs up and big smile.
I was re-inspired to pick up my lifelong learning tendency again.
I’ve been studying audio books again since December 2015, because what else are you supposed to do when you are sitting in 2 hours of daily traffic to and fro work, you know that traffic you are not supposed to be sitting in because that was not part of the hiring agreement .
Sorry I digress, that is a very sore spot for me.
And that was complaining and bitching. hahaha
Anyhow, I have been studying audio book since December 2015.
The topics I have studied include: Inspiration, Spirituality, Health, Fitness, Self-Development, Money and Business.
I have purchased and listened to 47 books. And some of them I have listened to many times over.
My focus for the last 9 plus months has been on business.
In particular, I have been studying extremely successful WOMEN and really taking heed in what they have to say.
One of the more recent studies was Nice Girls Don’t Get The Corner Office by Lois Frankel.
Boy did she give me a lot to think about.
She totally blew my plans out of the water by making complete sense as to why I will not get to where I want to go on my current path.
In March, I will be turning 46 and I thought I’d be making $100k by that age.
That may sound like a lot of money, unless you live in the DC metro area and you are the sole-provider for your present and future living conditions and you presently rent so your cost of living increase annually.
In my vision, the $100k didn’t necessarily have to come from one source.
I am not lazy and could work on the side doing bookkeeping or so many other things for others.
But with my current job, commute and maybe even industry – that is not possible.
Frankel pointed out that many women earn certificates or degrees while working but cannot move up where they work once they complete their studies because they have been type cast and are only needed for the position they have been hired to fill.
She also shared that the new norm for those who want to move up is to work for a company for three to five years, learn all that you can and do everything you can for them….and move to another company with a higher position.
Gone are the days that you stay somewhere for your working career, unless of course you have made it to the top, then by all means stay and reap what you have sown and enjoy!
I’ve been with my current company, two different times and positions, for a total of five years.
I’ve learned a lot, and I feel like I have given a lot in return.
Now I want more, but not necessarily more in the way of duties.
I keep getting more and new things to do at work and that is awesome!
Slight problem, these additions are on top of what I was already doing.
So. That is where I am.
My heart says, I want and can do far more.
My mind says, I am open and keep learning.
My body says, girl, you better get me back in shape! Don’t you know it helps in all areas of life to be fit and attractive?
My broken foot last year and my love for margaritas have totally dorked up my body!
My focus now, due to tax season, is doing the best job possible at work while focusing on body (fitness and health) too.
That is about all I will have time for until all is said and done aka Tax Day Deadline.
And then we shall see what I can do with the rest of 2017.
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